Attract and nourish the energy of love and romance with clear and easy feng shui tips
Feng shui for love relationships and marital harmony is one of the most popular applications of feng shui. Why feng shui for love? Well, it is obvious. The energy of love is like sunlight, we all need it. Since feng shui is known to have the tools to help attract the desired energy into one’s life, much attention is given to various feng shui love cures. However, before we look into a few tips to help you attract love — and a possible long-term relationship or marriage — we need to agree on something simple and very important. To be in a lasting love relationship, you have to be able to love and respect yourself and take care of your emotional needs. No amount of feng shui love cures will help you if the energies of self-love and self-responsibility are weak or missing. You can certainly use feng shui to attract a fantastic love affair, but it might not become a lasting love relationship. Read this quick feng shui love-check up to see if you are ready for a love relationship, then explore these three simple feng shui tips to help attract the energy of love.
Feng Shui Love Tip #1
Transform your bedroom into a place of nurturing sensuality and healing beauty, a place that has balanced energy for two people, not just one. Be sure you genuinely love the way your bedroom looks and feels – from the wall colour and window treatments to your bed linens and bedroom art. Make sure your bed has balanced energy on both sides, meaning it is easy to approach from either side. Create a quality of energy around your bed that is strong and grounded; this is usually done with nightstands — or something similar — on both sides. It is highly suggested to have a bed with a solid and protective headboard.
Feng Shui Love Tip #2
Transform your bathroom into a spa with healing and sensual quality of energy that feels crisp and fresh. This is easier said than done, especially because we tend to ignore our bathrooms. In feng shui, bathrooms are considered challenging because of the potentially negative energy that can accumulate there, and then spread throughout the whole house. (Note: if you have a bathroom in the center of the home, this will require more attention and intentional work from your part). In terms of a successful love relationship, the bathroom is the space, feng shui-wise, that holds quite a bit of power because it is regularly used for cleansing, purification and pampering one’s energy. This is a lot of activity for just one small space! Be sure your bathroom is not only clean and organized but also has a sense of beauty, freshness and spa-like soothing energy.
Feng Shui Love Tip #3
Use modern feng shui cures for love and be sure they work with your specific home decor and, most importantly, that you genuinely like them. Do not just place the famed Mandarin ducks in your relationships corner and expect love to come knocking at your door. Choose modern feng shui love cures such as beautiful art depicting two lovers, a bowl of rose quarts crystals, two big candle pillars in slightly different sizes, etc. Be creative in expressing the energy of love in a way that truly speaks to your heart, this is when you will start attracting the desired quality of love. While you can certainly have the feng shui love cures throughout your home (in a tasteful manner, of course); they are most powerful when placed in the love & marriage bagua area, or in your lucky direction for love. Do your best to approach feng shui intelligently and patiently, be wise in applying this ancient wisdom in your home, and I promise you will start seeing beautiful results in no time.
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